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punchLet’s face it, not everything in life will go your way. It often happens that just when things seem to be going so well, something comes out of left-field to knock us down. It’s a question of ‘when’ not ‘if.’
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The Difference Between Panic & Urgency

Over the weekend I read a blog post from Brad Feld regarding the difference between panic and urgency. It’s written by the head of an unnamed start-up company and I think it has relevance to many real estate entities today.

In recent weeks, many of my business contacts have discussed the economy and the pressure we are all feeling on a daily basis. They all have a sense of pressure. I am sure many of you can relate. If you are not feeling the pressure these days, then you may want to step outside or turn on the TV, or read a newspaper.
It has brought up a topic to me that has always been a challenge for me. The difference between panic and urgency. Panic is a sudden overwhelming fear, with or without cause, that produces hysterical or irrational behavior, and that often spreads quickly through a group of persons. We have all seen what panic looks like. Panic has no sense of purpose. Panic makes us run away from the problem. Panic gives a sense of hopelessness. Panic says there is no way out. For example, I am claustrophobic. When I feel trapped, I panic.

continuously purging irrelevant activities to provide time for the important and to prevent burn-out.

On the other hand a sense of urgency is different. John Kotter, Harvard professor, stated that true urgency may sometimes involve moving fast. But the most important aspects of true urgency are relentlessness, steadiness and the purposeful pursuit of a goal while “continuously purging irrelevant activities to provide time for the important and to prevent burn-out.” Go back and read that again and let it sink in.
Kotter gives a few suggestions to organizations and leaders:

1. Create a sense of urgency: he believes that organizations need a sense of urgency if they are going to change and be successful. I believe we need a culture of urgency. NOT PANIC. But urgency. We need a relentless, steady, purposeful culture that is pursuing our goals, purging irrelevant activities, and spending time on the important things.

2. Team Members must behave with urgency every day. Anxiety, panic, or anger are bad responses – team members should transmit their urgency in meetings, emails and in everything else they do each day

3. Look for the opportunities that are obscured by emerging crises. Fear can paralyze a business and prevent us from taking necessary action. A sense of urgency can carry us successfully through to success.

4. Deal with the NoNos – those “relentless urgency-killers” who would rather that their complacent existence was left undisturbed. Basically, Kotter is saying that complacency is a feeling that a person has about his or her own behavior, about what he or she needs to do or not do. “This point is also extremely important, because it is possible to see problems and yet be astonishingly complacent because you do not feel that the problems require changes in your own actions. So, we become complacent and lose the sense of urgency.”

Panic makes things worse. Urgency should make things better. I hope you can see that our leadership team is communicating a sense of urgency. Let me be clear, we are not in panic mode. I refuse to panic at work or at home. I hope you see us focused on pursuing our goals. I hope you see us purging irrelevant activities which include expenses, etc. I hope you see our relentlessness and steadiness. I hope you see our sense of determination to achieve our goals.

My challenge to each of you is that you wake up each day and have a sense of urgency both at work and in your personal life. I challenge you to evaluate your surroundings and look for opportunities to drive revenue and to make a difference in your clients. Look for ways to be productive for yourself and for our company. One key ingredient I know without a doubt you all have is talent unlike some of the singers in the last few weeks on American Idol. I know each of you have the talent for this business. So…
Don’t panic…but be urgent!

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Video of the Week – Attitude

When all seems doom & gloom, sometimes attitude is everything. In this stunning presentation Boston Philharmonic conductor, Ben Zander, unlocks the potential of a 15 year-old cellist and shows us how much better things can be by focusing on the possibilities instead of the negatives.


Squeezing the Toothpaste Tube

I’m wondering how much more I can get out of my tube of toothpaste. It’s pretty spent but I keep mashing it to get through another day without having to buy more i.e. spend money. To me that tube is iconic of the times; squeezing every ounce out of whatever we have to give us a bit more runway, a bit more time to let the market get back on its feet.

I thought about doing an interview with a financial planner for this blog but in the end I’m not sure that would really accomplish much. Just Google “Financial Tips” and you’ll find all you need. Instead, I think having conversations and getting real about the issues at hand is far more valuable.

As I look at the crumpled tube of toothpaste I wonder what it’s going to take to prosper from and through this time. I say prosper “from” because I do believe that there will be a time in my future where I’ll look back and say, “Yeah 2008 really sucked but it forced me to do ‘X’ and now look where I am.” And I suppose that’s the point; doing “X.” The thing, stuff, whatever, that we’ve been keeping on the back burner because times were good and we didn’t need it. It’s now about thinking and acting more aggressively and proactively. Maybe this is the way to have been all along. Squeezing the toothpaste tube only goes so far and finding motivation to not just sit still & get run over is a far better option.

So I’m dusting off some old ideas & creating some new ones that hopefully add great value. And my bet is that in this time people are more accepting to look at things in a new way. They have a lot less to lose and I’m betting that anything geared toward easing the pain and creating more business is welcome. We’ll see.

So how about you? What’s been on your back burner? Could it be simple stuff like learning to touch-type or that client relationship management system you’ve always been meaning to create. How about your bookshelf? How many books have you been meaning to read but never found the time? I wonder if you have the time now.


Video of the Week – Are You a Slasher?

Most real estate professionals I meet are slashers. That is they don’t do just one thing. They’re a real estate broker/investor or real estate broker/retail shop owner etc. Get it – the “/” slash?

Slashers are people who have multiple parallel careers whereas a moonlighter has a side gig they work on after hours. One of the authors gives examples of lawyers turned writers & coaches (including herself), a teacher with a modeling career, a computer programmer who also directs a theater, a lawyer who’s also a Baptist minister, Sanjay Gupta, the CNN health correspondent who also does surgery a few times a month, and the list goes on and on.

This is a rather long video(56min) but if you’re trying to play the slasher game it’s worth a look.
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